"his penis is small/average, I guess I'm just used to bigger ones, but its ok because he goes down on me all the time." This was a few months ago and I haven't been able to get that out of my head. I told her I overheard her say that, and we have talked about it. She has reassured me that I'm fine and she tells me she loves my penis and that its "perfect for her". She has even started to compliment it when we have sex, but i cant bring myself to believe her. To me she is just trying to stroke my ego or say these things to make me think she doesn't feel that way, but that conversation was had when she didn't think I was in earshot.... that was her speaking truthfully to her friend without fear of how it would affect me, so I cant believe her when she says otherwise. I don't have an issue with her sexual past, I am not one of those guys, but for me its the "but its ok" part. Is she saying she isn't satisfied with my penis, but she can tolerate it because i go down on her? Wont that get old for her some day? I really like her and I was seriously contemplating marrying her, but I cant shake this feeling that i am not going to be enough for her. I didn't know my confidence in myself could be affected so entirely with this one little comment. I am not looking for any penis size advice or responses, that has been done a million times, but i want to know if I am reading too much into this, or is this a serious issue I should be worried about?